Making Agreements Review

Excerpt:

Make agreements that are about 'asking' instead of 'demanding'.

Boundaries generally come with a demand to do or not do such and such. An agreement is a request, not a demand. In the long run, agreements are far more enduring, safer, and more liberating than boundaries. When starting an agreement,the attitude with which it is made is as important as what is actually said.

Me:

Drawing a line in the sand never works. It's like having a fear-based relationship compared to a love-based relationship.

It is probably best to never create an agreement while either party is under any duress.

Sexual Agreements

Amara Charles